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		<title>Remember Home Ec?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Pam Vukelic “I’ll be jiggered!” was the expression Lois Watts used when I explained to her the sophisticated computerized “babies” we use to simulate the experience of parenting a newborn in high school Parenting classes these days. The babies cry and coo, and demand various care-giving responses, all of which are recorded, and can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_1496" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 267px"><a href="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Lois-Watts.jpg"><img src="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Lois-Watts-257x300.jpg" alt="" title="Lois Watts" width="257" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-1496" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Lois Watts photo from BHS yearbook</p></div><br />
<em>by Pam Vukelic</em><br />
“I’ll be jiggered!” was the expression Lois Watts used when I explained to her the sophisticated computerized “babies” we use to simulate the experience of parenting a newborn in high school Parenting classes these days.  The babies cry and coo, and demand various care-giving responses, all of which are recorded, and can be printed out to evaluate the effectiveness of the parent.  Yes, things are remarkably different than they were when Lois started teaching Home Economics in the early 1940’s. <span id="more-1495"></span></p>
<p>Lois and her now deceased husband, Bob Watts, have made a large monetary gift to the Bismarck Public Schools.  Bob’s avocation and vocation was aviation.  Lois taught Home Economics for many years at Bismarck High School after her first year of teaching in Beach, and closed out her teaching career at Century when it was a brand new school.  Their gifts are intended to augment the learning experiences of the students who take the classes Lois used to teach and those who are pursuing the career that Bob loved.</p>
<p>Although many of Lois’s recollections have faded with time, there seem to be two experiences from her teaching days that stand out.  She remembers having four and five year old children come to the high school to have a playschool experience.  Students in Child Development classes planned lessons and activities for the children.  She recalls playing Ring Around the Rosie and reading children’s books like “The Little Engine that Could.”  She also remembers how one youngster got fed up with the activities and decided he was going to just go home.  Lois followed him to keep an eye on him and was relieved to find he lived just across the street from the school grounds.</p>
<p>During the holiday season Lois guided the Home Economics students in putting on an Annual Christmas Tea for faculty and spouses.  This was a huge production and preparations were monumental.   Thanks to Lynne Bigwood, a friend and companion to Lois, we were able to unearth a typed copy of all the recipes prepared for the tea held in 1966. There are four pages of legal-size paper chock-full of 32 different candy and cookie recipes.  Notwithstanding the work of preparing all these goodies, imagine the effort involved in preparing the recipe handouts.  Those of us old enough to recognize the format can appreciate what it took.  My mom was the advisor for our high school newspaper and I recall how she typed a stencil and used blue correction fluid to correct her mistakes.   Once that was completed, with lots of counting of spaces to center the titles, the stencil was attached to a machine with a drum and she cranked the handle to run each individual page through.   Do we appreciate all the cut and paste capabilities of our word processing programs as much as we should?  And this machine had no collating and stapling capabilities either!</p>
<p>Many of the recipes are familiar, and perhaps are still holiday favorites in your household.  They include Green Wreaths made with corn flakes and melted marshmallows, Pfefferneuse, Spritz, and Melting Moments.  And some seem to be more like a blast from the past – Jam Cake, Norwegian Butter Cookies, and Quick Walnut Panocha.</p>
<p>This must have been a much-anticipated event at the high school.  It’s one that has gone by the wayside.  However, students still invite small children to attend playschool.   And they still read “The Little Engine that Could” and play Ring Around the Rosie.   </p>
<p>Lois and Bob never had children of their own, but Lois holds a special place in the heart of many former students, friends, and neighbors.   Her kindness and generosity were apparent through the years in simple acts, and now through their significant gift to this generation’s children.</p>
<p> <div id="attachment_1497" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/IMG_0673.jpg"><img src="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/IMG_0673-300x200.jpg" alt="" title="IMG_0673" width="300" height="200" class="size-medium wp-image-1497" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A copy of one of the recipe handouts</p></div></p>
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		<title>My Mom, a Positive Influence</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 19:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s Note: This was an entry in the 2011 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest by Linda Boyd Mom is my inspiration. She encouraged me in my growing up years and she continues to be a positive influence. In the 50’s mom had several loses in her life. Her twin sister passed when they were in their [...]]]></description>
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<em>Editor&#8217;s Note: This was an entry in the 2011 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest</em></p>
<p>by Linda Boyd</p>
<p>Mom is my inspiration.  She encouraged me in my growing up years and she continues to be a positive influence.</p>
<p>    In the 50’s mom had several loses in her life.  Her twin sister passed when they were in their late twenties, and she lost her mother and grandmother – all in a short time.  Caring for Grandpa in his home was now necessary. My siblings and I were close in age (all under age 5). With all she had to take care of she continued to give positive encouragement to those around her. I can still hear her reminding us with words like, “You can do it” and  “Oh, you are just as good as they are”.  Telling us we could be whatever we wanted to be – do whatever we wanted to do.<span id="more-1490"></span></p>
<p>     In my early teens Mom went to Business College and then started working at The Minot Daily News, where she worked for 25 years. As busy as she was, she made sure my siblings and I attended Sunday school, church and church choir and practiced for our baton and guitar lessons. She taught Sunday school and volunteered as a scout leader. Mom knitted mittens for the neighbor kids and was known for her popcorn balls, especially around the holidays. She always encouraged us to get a college education.  I had a happy childhood. Mom saw to that. </p>
<p>     Following the death of dad in the early 1990’s, Mom moved to Bismarck, to be close to us – her children and grandchildren. Family has been her priority; so moving close to us was a natural choice for her. Immediately she began to volunteer with The ARC and got involved with quilting at church, but more importantly she again became a part of our everyday lives by helping us with our families. </p>
<p>      Today with some health issues, she carries on with dignity and a “can do” attitude.  She enjoys lunch with friends and telephone visits with her out of town sisters and plays bingo. At home she always has a jigsaw puzzle to complete, computer games to play and afghans to crochet. A passion of hers is ice-skating (as a spectator these days).  Together we enjoy the Bismarck/Mandan Newcomers meeting each month, the Bismarck-Mandan Symphony programs, local ballet productions, movies, lunch around town and attending church.</p>
<p>   As I drop her off at her front door, I watch as she lugs a heavy bag and maybe some bargains she found at the mall. “Can I help you get those things?” I ask. “No, I will take my time and get there” she replies. Throughout my lifetime she has demonstrated that even though circumstances will sometimes get in our way, we need to continue to move forward and never, ever give up. Our attitude and faith will get us through the tough times.</p>
<p>       I have been blessed and am thankful for my mom, Meredith Pratt, who continues to inspire me. </p>
<p><em>Linda Boyd is a substitute teacher after retiring from Mandan Public Schools. She and husband Jim have two wonderful boys, Jeff and Brandon.</em></p>
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		<title>Arthritis: More than just joint pain</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 01:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Kylie Blanchard It’s a condition that affects individuals of all ages, including children, and occurs in both males and females. Although “arthritis” is a general term used to describe joint pain, there are approximately 70 million adults nationwide that suffer from some form of this condition. “Typically, we divide joint symptoms into two main [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_1488" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_1597.jpg"><img src="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_1597-300x221.jpg" alt="" title="IMG_1597" width="300" height="221" class="size-medium wp-image-1488" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Dr. Lynne Peterson with some volunteers at the 2011 Arthritis Walk</p></div><br />
By Kylie Blanchard</p>
<p>It’s a condition that affects individuals of all ages, including children, and occurs in both males and females. Although “arthritis” is a general term used to describe joint pain, there are approximately 70 million adults nationwide that suffer from some form of this condition. </p>
<p>“Typically, we divide joint symptoms into two main categories, those conditions that are degenerative or ‘wear-and-tear’ related, and those conditions that are inflammatory,” says Dr. Lynne Peterson, rheumatologist at Medcenter One. <span id="more-1487"></span></p>
<p>Dr. Peterson completed her Rheumatology Fellowship at Mayo Clinic in 1996 and began practicing at Medcenter One the same year. She has taken part in national clinical arthritis research projects for the past 15 years and has also been named Clinical Researcher of the Year for the Rheumatoid Arthritis Investigational Network on multiple occasions.</p>
<p>“The symptoms of arthritis vary according to the type of joint condition,” she says. “The most common symptoms include joint pain, stiffness, swelling, difficulty moving a joint or redness of a joint. Children often present with a limp or refusal to walk.” </p>
<p>According to the national Arthritis Foundation, the most common types of arthritis include osteoarthritis, rheumatoid arthritis and juvenile arthritis. Osteoarthritis, also called degenerative joint disease, is the most common, affecting 27 million people nationwide. It is a chronic condition characterized by the breakdown of the joint’s cartilage. Rheumatoid arthritis is also a chronic disease, characterized by the inflammation of the lining of the joints and can lead to long-term joint damage, chronic pain, loss of function and disability. Juvenile arthritis refers to any form of arthritis or arthritis-related condition that develops in children under 16 years of age. It affects nearly 300,000 children in the United States.  </p>
<p>Dr. Peterson says significant strides have been made in the treatment options for arthritis patients, especially those with rheumatoid arthritis. “Multiple medications are available for rheumatoid arthritis, including anti-inflammatory agents, steroids, disease modifying agents, and the newer biologic agents. Osteoarthritis, or degenerative arthritis, is typically treated with physical therapy, pain control, splints, steroid injections, and surgery. Unfortunately, we do not have a drug to reverse osteoarthritis.” </p>
<p>She notes there are measures individuals can take to help prevent arthritis, including exercise, smoking cessation, prevention of injuries and weight loss.</p>
<p>Anne West was first diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis in 1996. “I was down in Texas for the winter and got very sick with a lot of pain,” she says of her first experience with the symptoms of the disease. “I was one of Dr. Peterson’s first patients in Bismarck. I knew she was trained at Mayo and I was waiting to see her when she got set up here.”</p>
<p>West has worked with Dr. Peterson to control the symptoms of her rheumatoid arthritis primarily with medication, but she has had both her knees replaced and surgery on both hands as a result of the condition. “I exercise an hour a day on a recumbent bike and I know that also helps,” West adds. </p>
<p>As a professional artist, she says the condition has not slowed her ability to create works of art and instruct individuals on the craft of painting. “I think people expect you to be crippled and I am not,” she says.   </p>
<p>Many misconceptions exist today related to arthritis, notes Dr. Peterson. “Often people think arthritis is just aches and pains, and little can be done to alleviate the pain and disability of arthritis,” she notes. “But significant advances in treatment have occurred in the past few years, especially for inflammatory arthritis. It is important to seek medical attention early to avoid delay in diagnosis and to potentially start treatment before joint damage occurs.”</p>
<p>West also encourages those experiencing the symptoms of arthritis to seek medical attention. “That is what is going to help,” she says. “If an individual thinks they have arthritis, I would highly recommend Dr. Peterson. She is a great doctor.” </p>
<p>Both West and Dr. Peterson say raising awareness of arthritis is an important step to the continued research and treatment of its conditions. The Arthritis Walk is held each spring across the nation to help raise awareness of the disease. The event brings together community members to promote movement and raise funds for arthritis research, education and life improvement programs. </p>
<p>This year’s Bismarck-Mandan Arthritis Walk will take place on Saturday, May 5 at the Medcenter One Women’s Health Center. Registration begins at 9 a.m. and the walk begins at 10 a.m.  “The event is a fun-filled morning which includes a health fair, kid’s zone, warm-up exercises, one- or three-mile walk and door prizes,” says Dr. Peterson. </p>
<p>“Arthritis is a common and often, debilitating disorder,” she continues. “It is important to have ongoing joint problems evaluated to assess the type of arthritis and treatment recommendations. Although we do not have a cure for arthritis, the treatment options may put the arthritis into remission so that joint damage does not occur.” </p>
<p>A<em>dditional information on arthritis, along with a variety of resources for arthritis patients and their families, is available on The Arthritis Foundation website at <a href="http://www.arthritis.org">www.arthritis.org. </a><br />
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 15:01:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Tina Ding After receiving a flu shot, Lisa Helseth’s heart began racing. She reached out for medical help. However, following numerous doctor appointments and emergency room visits, her health continued to decline. She sought medical treatment for a host of symptoms including her unexplained weight loss. Eventually Helseth turned to Mayo Clinic where she [...]]]></description>
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<em>by Tina Ding</em></p>
<p>After receiving a flu shot, Lisa Helseth’s heart began racing. She reached out for medical help. However, following numerous doctor appointments and emergency room visits, her health continued to decline. She sought medical treatment for a host of symptoms including her unexplained weight loss. Eventually Helseth turned to Mayo Clinic where she was diagnosed with celiac disease.<span id="more-1484"></span></p>
<p>Helseth learned the villa in her small intestine had become damaged by the disease – preventing her body from absorbing nutrients into her bloodstream. She researched and discovered she’d need to completely eliminate gluten (the protein found in wheat, barley and rye) from her diet, since celiac disease can lead to a number of other disorders, including cancers, autoimmune diseases and anemia.<br />
Armed with knowledge and prepared to adopt a new gluten-free diet, she shopped local grocery aisles for both foods and products without gluten. Discouraged and frustrated, she read label after label – discovering the harsh realities of her disease. Nearly everything she picked up held gluten in the form of one wheat product or another. From shampoos and toothpastes to obvious breads, pastas and processed foods, her shopping cart stayed empty. Five hour trips to grocery stores were cumbersome and depressing. </p>
<p>Unrealistic preparation of two different menus at each meal added to her burden. Even the smallest particles of gluten can cause health problems to those with gluten intolerance/sensitivity or with celiac, contributing to bowel damage and creating an immune-mediated toxic reaction. Cross-contamination while preparing foods posed a serious risk; her home became gluten-free and her husband Jay joined her new nutritional plan.</p>
<p>Still, they struggled with purchasing foods locally. They journeyed to Minnesota frequently to purchase safe foods for her and found they shared a deep desire to help make a difference not only in their household, but into the Bismarck-Mandan community of gluten-intolerant individuals, those with gluten-sensitivity and those diagnosed with celiac disease. They knew the difficulties of seeking gluten-free products and now recognized the severity of a diagnosis without treatment.</p>
<p>“Learning I had celiac disease gave me hope. I finally knew what was wrong with my body,” Helseth said. “Yet there were few options for us locally. We knew the ultimate option for us was to establish a gluten-free store.”</p>
<p>When both her son and sister were diagnosed, she moved on her decision to make life simpler. She and her husband Jay seriously began hunting for a store front so they might bring these products to our area – under one roof. </p>
<p>They considered locations in both Bismarck and Mandan before selecting a location with ample parking and windows. Located at 211 E Main Street in Mandan, the shelves are stocked with gluten-free foods and products as well as dairy- and peanut-free foods. Shoppers no longer need to scrutinize labels; every item at Lisa’s holds no gluten.  </p>
<p>“We knew it was larger than the two of us when our son became diagnosed. I was no longer alone in this journey and began to fully understand the dynamic of this being an inherited disease,” Helseth explained. “Our grandchild also holds the gene.”</p>
<p>Gluten exists in all forms of wheat, inclusive of durum, spelt, rye, barley, semolina and more. According to the National Foundation for Celiac Awareness, celiac disease affects one out of 133 Americans. When consuming gluten, ingested protein interferes with the absorption of nutrients. A genetic disorder, the diagnosis can be tricky. Symptomatic individuals may approach their physician to request information and may undergo blood work or a biopsy to determine celiac disease or to learn of gluten intolerance and gluten sensitivity.</p>
<p>“Recovery from this lifelong disease means never eating gluten again,” Jay Helseth said. “We chose to invest in a store; we are the only gluten-free store in North Dakota. Our goals are first to be a resource to friends and family with this disease, and secondly, we strive to make gluten-free products available in our area, our community.”</p>
<p>While recovering, Lisa has grown intolerant of both dairy and corn. She now finds herself more appreciative of other food allergies or intolerances. She tucks away ideas, recipes and tips from various customers – with every intention of sharing them. “Play-doh and licorice contain gluten,” she said. “Who knew?”</p>
<p>Lisa’s Gluten-Free &#038; More holds replacement products for everyday all-purpose flour so baking and cooking is possible. Multiple pasta brands, flours and condiments as well as some chips or crackers fill the shelves. Baking ingredients such as yeast, baking soda and baking powder can contain gluten. Her stock items do not.</p>
<p>“Opening this business has been so rewarding to me,” Helseth said. “Seeing repeat customers and knowing they are now able to eat healthier and overcome this disease has been very fulfilling. It’s developed into a family business. And we like that. We wouldn’t have it any other way.”</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s Note: This was an entry in the 2011 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest. by Kathleen Atkinson, OSB There was nothing magnanimous in the gesture. I was with a GOD&#8217;s CHILD service team at Panajachel, Guatemala, and we were eating breakfast when an elderly woman came to the door begging. As she walked on, I picked [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC01785.jpg"><img src="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC01785-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="DSC01785" width="300" height="225" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1480" /></a><em>Editor&#8217;s Note: This was an entry in the 2011 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest.</em></p>
<p>by Kathleen Atkinson, OSB</p>
<p>There was nothing magnanimous in the gesture. I was with a GOD&#8217;s CHILD service team at Panajachel, Guatemala, and we were eating breakfast when an elderly woman came to the door begging. As she walked on, I picked up my waffle and syrup packets to follow her. We sat on the curbside and ate in comfortable silence, broken by soft laughter when syrup would run down one of our hands or chin.<span id="more-1479"></span></p>
<p>Though a busy morning, one man stopped long enough to simply say, &#8220;You are a beautiful woman.&#8221; I translated it for my barefoot, syrup-smeared friend, giving her a smile and a gesture that said, &#8220;He told us we were beautiful women. Isn&#8217;t that wonderful? And it is true, too.&#8221;</p>
<p>I am inspired by her and still remember her months after that short meeting. I am inspired by the many beautiful women who live life valiantly. Their beauty will never make it to the front cover of a magazine; it will often come crusted with dirt and second hand clothing. It will come from an inner strength that proclaims &#8220;I will survive! Against all odds, I will survive!&#8221; This story is not about just one woman, but about the many who touched my life that year as I worked in Guatemala.  These are some of the women: </p>
<p><strong>Maria Juliana</strong>. I held her, bathed her and fed her at the Casa Jackson Home for Malnourished Infants. Rescued as a newborn from a dumpster, she was a fighter surrounded by people fighting with her. As I whispered to her of her beauty, I sent a prayer out for her mother. A woman must be devastatingly desperate to abandon a child that way. </p>
<p><strong>Mother of Anita and Juan</strong>. I didn&#8217;t know her name because she often did laundry when the family arrived at the homeless shelter. She dressed her children for school in the morning. She worked during the day while they were at school, carrying the family belongings in a black garbage bag. Coming &#8220;home&#8221; every night to their mattress in a corner, she reviewed their homework with them and  reminded Anita and Juan to say their meal prayer .  She was a beautiful woman, fiercely believing in a better future for her children. </p>
<p><strong>Marcia</strong>. I first met her in 1992 and in the decades since then, she has drawn the same heart and bird pictures, colored pencils held in her toes. A begging basket held in her wheelchair. With a smile and kind word for the people of the street &#8211; tourist or tramp, she treated all with dignity. One morning, a handwritten sign appeared on the chair where she had grown from a young teen to a woman. The sign simply read, &#8220;May 7, 2010. Marcia died.&#8221; The basket now received donations to buy this beautiful woman a final resting place; her heart and body are now free to fly. </p>
<p>Who inspires me? I am inspired by the many beautiful women who live life valiantly; most often for a person or purpose other than themselves. In meeting the women whose stories I have shared here, my life was changed and yet, I realized I have been blessed to meet many equally strong beautiful women here at home.  They have lived here for centuries on our vast prairies: planting corn, braving blizzards, birthing and burying babies without medical care.  They are living here today: I have met them in the schools, social agencies, country churches and city streets of our area. </p>
<p>Maria Juliana, Mother of Anita and Juan, Marcia, and the others of Guatemala simply opened my eyes. Opening my eyes often broke open my heart. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m frequently surprised by the broken and valiant spirit I find there, too. </p>
<p><em>Sister Kathleen Atkinson is a Benedictine Sister from the Annunciation Monastery in Bismarck, ND. She currently ministers at Charles Hall Youth Services and the ND Penitentiary.</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s note: This story was the third place winner in the 2012 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest. By Joanne Kabanuck As I was waiting for my flight to Indianapolis in October 2011, I was thinking about the last time I’d seen my sister in August 2010 and wondering what she looked like now and how she [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_1475" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_1348.jpg"><img src="http://www.inspiredwomanonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_1348-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="IMG_1348" width="300" height="225" class="size-medium wp-image-1475" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Lois and Joey in Noblesville, IN</p></div></p>
<p><em>Editor&#8217;s note: This story was the third place winner in the 2012 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest.</p>
<p>By Joanne Kabanuck</p>
<p>As I was waiting for my flight to Indianapolis in October 2011, I was thinking about the last time I’d seen my sister in August 2010 and wondering what she looked like now and how she could move around. I was asking myself how I could help her while I visited with her and her husband, Bob.</p>
<p>You may be wondering “why doesn’t she know what her sister looks like?”, but 2011 wasn’t a good year for my sister. When we last saw each other, I knew she was planning to have hip surgery, but otherwise she was in excellent health. <span id="more-1474"></span></p>
<p>Lois went in for hip surgery January 12, 2011, and was home several days later. She had no clue of what was to come and how her life was about to change. She started feeling like something was wrong and noticed her incision was looking infected.  She saw her surgeon and he had her go directly to the hospital where she then had three more surgeries as they attempted to isolate the problem.</p>
<p>At first they reopened the incision to check for a cause for the problem but nothing was found.  Next the doctors thought her body could be allergic to the titanium, so they removed the hip joint. Soon it became apparent that there was much more going wrong, as her skin began to deteriorate. The doctors scrambled to figure out what was going on, even calling in specialists for consultations and going online to ask other doctors if they had seen anything like this before. The wound grew to about 8 inches by 17 inches in size and was very painful.</p>
<p>The condition was finally diagnosed as “Pyoderma Gangrenosum” an autoimmune disease, by the process of elimination as there is no test for this condition, and they started treatment for it using prednisone. The skin and flesh around the incision had been eaten away by the disease, which in some cases can be triggered by a history of colitis, which Lois had been diagnosed with in the past.  Once the spread of the disease was controlled, they did more surgery and installed a spacer in the joint.   </p>
<p>Lois went home after becoming stabilized but started getting weaker and after a few days her primary care doctor sent her to a large hospital in Indianapolis, where she would have access to more specialized care.  It was determined that she had developed two blood infections most likely caused by the huge open wound on her leg.  Several days in ICU, where she got fantastic care, controlled the infection but it had contaminated the spacer.   A series of seven operations at an every two to three day interval were used to remove the spacer, the remnants of the infections and to stretch her skin to reduce the size of the open wound.</p>
<p>In all, Lois had a total of eleven surgeries and she will now go through life with no hip as the risk of any artificial joint or additional surgeries is far too great.  Through this, she wondered if she would survive. Her positive attitude has inspired many people. One doctor told her that without her optimism and strong faith, she would have died. At one time, he thought he had lost her during a surgery, but she pulled through. She told me later, that she had seen our parents looking down at her, but they were smiling at her and not beckoning her to join them. </p>
<p>Through it all, Lois had a support network that spanned many states and she renewed friendships from all over the country. The Caring Bridge website was instrumental in keeping Lois connected with her friends and family, and even with people she hadn’t met, who wished to send her supportive messages. Lois said that those messages kept her going and gave her comfort when she was feeling down. Lois truly believes that it was through prayer that she received the proper care, and was given access to the top surgeons and top infectious disease doctors.</p>
<p>Lois had hopes of going home by the end of May, but missed that goal by several days. She finally got to take a shower at the end of May, and she was so excited!  She finally went home on June 3rd.   Because they live in a two story house, her husband built her a bed in the family room, where they still sleep. She has her lift chair near the bed and her sewing table in the family room also. She is now back to sewing quilts and also does some baking and cooking. She has many exercises to do each day to keep her muscles strong and flexible. </p>
<p>Her shoulder joint is now deteriorated and very painful. The joint looked good in February, but by June the x-ray showed bone on bone. This was caused either by the prednisone or the blood infections. Her right knee also bothers her, but the doctors have told her that she can’t have any more surgeries, as they fear the disease might flare up again. Lois goes to physical therapy each week and recently has added water therapy now that her thigh has fully healed, which she enjoys very much.</p>
<p>When I first saw her, I was surprised at how “normal” she looked. Her hair had always been kept brown, but now it had turned to a lovely gray with dark brown undertones. I was amazed at how she was able to get around with her walker and that she didn’t seem helpless at all. Her one leg is two and a half inches shorter than the other leg, so she has gotten her shoes built up to make it easier to walk. Lois had entered 2 of her quilts in a quilt show, so the next morning, we went to the quilt show to see all the quilts. Lois was able to walk around with her walker for over an hour!! She would run into people she knew and was always greeted with so much caring. Lois never complained or whined about what she had been through. She told me how the little things that we all take for granted, are tough when your movements are limited. She has trouble sitting down and getting up, negotiating steps, and public restrooms can’t be negotiated on her own. She no longer takes simple things for granted. She has always been very independent, so she has had to learn to depend on lots of help from others.</p>
<p>Lois has always been a role model to me, but I have been truly inspired by her strength of character, her strong faith, her positive attitude, bravery and determination. </p>
<p>Note: This year is looking much better for Lois. She will become a grandma for the first time in September and is planning to move into a new single level home later this year also. </p>
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Joanne (Joey) Kabanuck is a Registered Sales Assistant in Bismarck.</em></p>
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		<title>Great Aunt Grace &#8211; The keeper of the land, keeper of my tradition</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s note: This story was the second place winner in our 2012 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest. by Kayla Matzke Newbanks I rolled out the pie dough as evenly as I could, gently pressing the rolling pin down all directions. My great aunt Grace corrected me, telling me I was putting too much weight on the [...]]]></description>
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<em>Editor&#8217;s note: This story was the second place winner in our 2012 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest.</p>
<p>by Kayla Matzke Newbanks</p>
<p>I rolled out the pie dough as evenly as I could, gently pressing the rolling pin down all directions. My great aunt Grace corrected me, telling me I was putting too much weight on the pin. It needed to be effortless, a simple motion repeated to create the paper-thin crust. </p>
<p>Right before high school, I was spending a week of summer at Grace’s farm east of McClusky, North Dakota. I came to learn how to make the perfect pie, to soak up all of her knowledge about the simple pleasures in life, like making the best dough recipe for German kneophla. <span id="more-1467"></span></p>
<p>Like my mother, I spent some time each summer at the farm, canning beans, picking potato bugs off of the potatoes plants in the garden, painting fences, and playing in the barn. But it never really struck me until I was 13 that the farm has been Grace’s home since birth. The old white farmhouse she grew up in used to stand 50 feet south of her current doorway. The thousands of acres Grace and her husband farmed is the same land my great grandfather purchased when he came to North Dakota. </p>
<p>As she corrected me again in her stern German way about my dough rolling, I breathed in the familiar aroma of her kitchen, a combination of dill, hints of the mornings’ coffee and real cream. Grace was an idol to me, the closest thing I had to a blood grandmother. She was the keeper of tradition, a link to the past and a cord connecting me to the magnificent, do-it-all women relatives I never knew – women with no dishwashers, no Walmarts, and no other way of carrying on everyday life without the skills their mother’s taught them.</p>
<p>The farm lies in the pothole region of the state, flat prairies pocked with pond-like depressions. Between this desolate, flat land and the empty skies lies my family story. To me, Grace was the keeper of this land’s history. </p>
<p>When I roamed the vast farmyard, I could envision the old two-story farmhouse and Grace’s stories that went with it. I imagined my great grandmother on the porch, her apron revealing the pooch of her lower belly stretched from bearing twelve children. A tight bun clenched atop her head, she’s banging the supper bell just before sunset.</p>
<p>Near the sunflower field I could imagine my own grandmother – a woman I never knew – posing for one of those black and white pictures in a musty album. Names I’d heard before and faces I’d seen in yellowed photos came alive. The farm became more than Grace’s home, the place we spent holidays; it became my past, my history. My roots were deeper than those of the countless summer’s harvest of durum and barley. Along with the crops, I grew from this place.</p>
<p>As a girl, I’d walk to the field near the old railroad tracks, to pick chokecherries. By late afternoon on most summer days, I was sent out to Grace’s raspberries lining the Quonset. Not long after I located the ripest of berries, Grace would join me with her pail and straw hat. Her fine-boned feminine frame still strong, she would squat examining her plants. Reviewing my progress, she would advise me on which berries should be picked and tell me to look around the whole bush for the fruit. “Here, let me show you. You have to look around the entire shrub for berries. See?” she would say. If only then I would have realized all the value in Grace’s knowledge and appreciated her simple lessons. </p>
<p>As I neared adulthood the farm became proof of my long-dead relatives existence, and their story was mine. After hearing some of the farm’s past from Grace and paging through worn photo albums, I couldn’t wander the farm without feeling a connection deeper than blood to these people I never knew.<br />
Today as Grace has completed weekly rounds of chemo, fighting her second battle with breast cancer in almost a decade – at 76, a fight she might not win – everyday activities like baking pies and gardening are put aside. Her life is different without hair and a left breast.</p>
<p>At the end of August on her birthday, my mother and I drove 70 miles to the farm to celebrate Grace’s birthday. “I’ll put on my wig,” she said when mom told her we were coming up to celebrate. Thunderheads tailed us as we drove along Highway 200 to the farm. We passed farmers combining fields, trying to finish harvesting before the storm. The scenes out the window only reminded me that illness and age had seized the vital woman I adored, a woman who should have been caught up in harvest too. Driving down that lonely two-lane highway I wondered what would become of my family’s long tradition of working the land.</p>
<p>As we pulled into the driveway, Grace greeted us at the door like always. Her salt and pepper wig wasn’t the same as her sun-kissed light brown hair. Her body was smaller and her skin paler. Grace moved slower as she led us from the atrium to her kitchen. Her body seemed weary from a fight. Her freezer wasn’t filled with prime cuts of beef from the last butchering and homemade buns frozen for summer sandwiches; it was stocked with TV dinners for the days she couldn’t find the strength to leave bed. I realized her kitchen was lonelier and her garden smaller. The land is emptier, too, since my aunt stopped farming it and rented it out. Driving home that night after visiting, I wished I could travel back to the summer days of picking raspberries and cooking with my beloved aunt whose days are dwindling.</p>
<p>Months later, as the cold of winter settled among the prairies sucking all the life out of the stubble of wheat fields, my mother told me Grace’s cancer had moved into her brain. My throat swelled and my stomach churned; it became real to me that her fate was terminal. Tumors were cluttering her brain like weeds. Her eyesight and hearing started to fade. Like the winter’s long hold over the prairie my aunt’s cancer had seized the strong woman I so admired. </p>
<p>“Is that Tiffany?” Grace said, mistaking me for my sister, as I entered the house during my last visit at Christmastime. She sat immobile on the couch with a quilt on her lap. “Come sit next to me,” she said. Her head was swollen, and the clear light blue of her eyes seemed murky and gray. I’d never seen her so frail. Tears flooded down my cheeks as she made small talk with me. I hoped she couldn’t see them but I knew they were clear, even to her worn sight, as she stared at me. I told her about the supper my mom and cousins were preparing in her kitchen. </p>
<p>“Be sure to check those potatoes,” Grace said. “The cream will curdle if you don’t watch them. They need to be checked,” she said with the same attention to detail she always had when she was in the kitchen. It’s always been Grace’s concern for details and love for those she was serving that made all of the meals she cooked memorable. </p>
<p>Evening set in and a blue glow bounced off the snow from the night sky leaking into the farmhouse windows. I thought it could be one of the last times my family and I sat amongst my aunt’s dinning room table with her. Grace sat in her wheelchair at the head of the table like always. Her favorite Christmas apron draped onto her lap even though she didn’t have the strength to help prepare our meal. “Let me know if you need anything,” she said as we ate.</p>
<p>I headed to the kitchen after gathering dishes from the table and Grace said, “I should be in there helping them.” Even though she has lost the physical ability to perform the tasks that are so important to her like gardening, canning and cooking for loved ones, her will to do those things hasn’t died.</p>
<p>Roaming through my memories at Grace’s farmstead, I will never forget the vibrant colors that glowed in her pantry, reflecting a rainbow of preserves and vegetables in Kerr jars; the smell of her kitchen and her magic with plants. Above all, I will never lose the simple recollections of her teaching me the very activities she loved, like how to roll out a proper pie crust.</p>
<p>Already, I’m missing this woman, the emblem of the maternal side of my family. I’m mourning the loss of the things she could have told me, could have taught me. I’m mourning the moments I won’t have and my connection to those before me. I’m missing the farm and the warmth of her home, the connection to my history that will inevitably be severed. The land and its keeper are slipping away from me.<br />
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<p>Writer’s note: The author wrote this personal essay in the final months of her great aunt’s life. Grace lost her battle with breast cancer in January 2009. </p>
<p>Kayla Matzke Newbanks is a writer residing in San Diego, Calif. where her husband serves in the Navy. She has a bachelor’s in print journalism from the University of Montana.<br />
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		<title>Everlasting Grace</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 15:01:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s note: This story was the first place winner in our 2012 &#8220;Who Inspires You&#8221; contest. by Cheryl McCormack “I wanna give her the world I wanna hold her hand I wanna be her mom for as long as I can and I wanna live every moment until that day comes I wanna show her [...]]]></description>
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<p>by Cheryl McCormack</p>
<p>“I wanna give her the world<br />
I wanna hold her hand<br />
I wanna be her mom for as long as I can<br />
and I wanna live every moment until that day comes<br />
I wanna show her what it means to be loved”</p>
<p>It was difficult to hold back the stinging tears in my eyes as Mark Schultz belted out the lyrics to his song, “What It Means to be Loved,” at the Belle Mehus Auditorium, one evening in late October&#8230;just days after my newborn niece, Grace Mary Axt, was laid to rest in a tiny casket; carried protectively by my grieving brother&#8217;s strong arms. <span id="more-1461"></span> </p>
<p>Baby “Gracie” was born with a neural tube defect, known as anencephaly, in which the fetus has very minimal development of their brain.  The skull and skin that protects the brain does not form, leaving the remaining brain tissue exposed.  A baby born with anencephaly has zero chance of long-term survival and most are lucky to live through labor and delivery.  The defect is present within the first month of pregnancy, when the neural tube neglects to fold and close between the third and fourth week of development.  My brother, Jeff, and his wife, Missy,  learned of their baby&#8217;s condition just as they were headed into their third month of pregnancy.  </p>
<p>After hearing the doctor&#8217;s prognosis for Grace, the couple was given two options-terminate the pregnancy or try to carry her to term, God willing.  Jeff and Missy were going to have to make the most important decision of their lives, thus far.  However, it didn&#8217;t take them long to come to a mutual consensus.  They chose life for their baby, knowing the final outcome would be devastating.  They wanted a chance to meet their child and love on her as much as they possibly could.  They longed for memories of their first-born child to carry with them on the long journey that lie before them.  Grace was growing and living off of her mother in utero.  Her little hands and feet were being molded by the hands of God.  How could they possibly end the beautiful life that was being created within Missy&#8217;s womb?!?  They decided to leave Grace&#8217;s future in God&#8217;s hands, knowing full well that their baby would be lucky to survive labor; let alone minutes, hours, or days following her birth.</p>
<p>What Jeff and Missy had to do next is unimaginable! They had to tell their family and friends the devastating news.  Not only were they going to lose their baby, a granddaughter, niece, cousin, and special friend would be lost to all of those that knew and loved the Axts.  I still remember the heartbreak, disbelief, and denial.  There were many days of questioning how God could create an innocent baby, so perfect and sweet, without the most functional organ in the human body.  And why Jeff and Missy?  They had desired a child for well over a year and were elated when they found out they were pregnant. Grace was loved and needed from that very moment.  </p>
<p>Unfortunately, we can&#8217;t stop the hands of time.  Between appointments and the work on their farm, the two of them kept rather busy.  The summer months brought many distractions-planting, haying, spraying and harvest, which were a godsend.  Missy spent her days at the McClusky Clinic as a devoted and loving nurse.  Before long, she began to feel all the normal pregnancy symptoms-the first kick, bouts of hiccups, somersaults, being nudged in the ribs (many times!), and the 20 week ultrasound.  They were having a girl! With each changing season, Gracie grew and became more and more active.  The pregnancy was as normal as could be. Jeff and Missy had to pinch themselves to remind them of what lie ahead.  </p>
<p>The closer they came to their October 8 due date, the more pressing it became to start planning.  Not the nursery theme or a closet full of cute, little sleepers; rather, funeral arrangements.  Planning a birth and a funeral all at once.  Jeff and Missy discovered an organization ran by monks, called The Trappist Monk Casket Company, that donates or gives caskets at a reduced cost to families that have lost an infant. After ordering a casket from them, they made their way to the local cemetery to pick out a plot.  As they were walking around the cemetery, little Gracie was kicking up a storm in her mama&#8217;s womb, making the moment that much more surreal.  </p>
<p>October had finally arrived and with it came bittersweet feelings and emotions.  Jeff and Missy were excited to meet Grace, but at the same time not ready to say goodbye.  They scheduled their induction date for October 19, as most anencephalic babies do not go into labor on their own.  And then they waited.</p>
<p>Grace Mary Axt was born October 20, 2011 at 8:35am, via cesarean section, after a long and unsuccessful attempt at an induced labor.  She weighed in at 6 lbs, 9oz and was 19” long.  She had soft, dark hair at the nape of her neck.  She had her daddy&#8217;s long fingers and strong hands. Her mouth, chin, and the little toes on her feet were just like her father&#8217;s.   And from her mommy, she inherited her tiny ears, nose, and the most beautiful eyes!  Missy said it best when she said, “Looking into her eyes was like looking directly into the eyes of God.”  She had the best features of both of her parents and she truly was beautiful!  Gracie took everyone by surprise, as she was able to do many things that most anencephalic babies aren&#8217;t typically able to do-yawn, coo, drink from a bottle, and even wet a diaper!  After being baptized and confirmed, she was able to meet both sets of grandparents, numerous aunts and uncles, and many special friends.<br />
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Throughout Grace&#8217;s day, there were instances when they&#8217;d thought they&#8217;d lost her.  She had a couple of apnea episodes, where her breathing became irregular. After some skin-to-skin contact with her parents, she came to again.  During the second scare, Jeff whispered to his little girl, “Just give me two more hours, Gracie.  I&#8217;m not ready yet.”  And that&#8217;s exactly what she did.  She passed away, peacefully, two hours later and was pronounced dead at 11:39pm. She went from the arms of her parents&#8217; directly into Jesus&#8217; loving embrace. Missy and Jeff had guarded and protected Grace for nine months. Now it was Grace&#8217;s turn to protect her mommy and daddy with her beautiful, angel wings.</p>
<p>Her funeral was held days later.  She looked like a precious, little dolly all swaddled up in her pink, John Deere blanket.  Her daddy had picked out a toy John Deere tractor to rest in the grave with her. He bought a matching one to keep for himself.  Across her chest lay a butterfly rosary.  Butterflies became Gracie&#8217;s little sign-the sign of resurrection.  At the cemetery, Jeff carried his little girl in that tiny casket to the spot she&#8217;d be laid to rest, near an evergreen tree.  He needed to hold her just one last time!  Family and friends gathered together and mourned the loss of one very special, baby girl.  </p>
<p>Grace was surrounded by those that loved her every minute of her life. All she knew was love!  She was born and died on the same day.  However, in her short fifteen hours of life, she touched more lives than some people do in an entire lifetime!  That little bundle of joy had developed quite a fan club, via a caring bridge website that Missy had created.  She used the site to channel all of her emotions and easily keep everyone up-to-date.  Lots of prayers have been and still continue to be lifted up to heaven for the Axt family.  </p>
<p>As a mother of a sweet and vibrant two-year-old girl, I am truly inspired by my sister-in-law, Missy.  She went through an entire pregnancy, watching  her belly grow and move with the passing months, knowing that in the end she&#8217;d have to say goodbye. There was no guarantee that she&#8217;d even have the opportunity to meet and love on Grace before that goodbye.  What a selfless thing to do!  She has weathered the storm with so much strength and courage, making sure that Grace&#8217;s life would not be in vain.  Missy&#8217;s love for her daughter is so very genuine and unconditional.  Simply stated, Missy is an amazing mom!</p>
<p>After leaving the Mark Schultz concert that evening, I felt so fortunate to have met my niece, Grace.  And even though Jeff and Missy only got to “hold her hand” for a short while, I am certain that Grace definitely knew “what it meant to be loved.”<br />
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Missy and Jeff are still coping with the loss of their daughter; there is not a day that passes that they don&#8217;t long for their baby girl!  Missy has turned to blogging and public speaking to help her cope with Gracie&#8217;s death and to educate others about infant loss.  Her blog can be found here: <a href="http://graceful-butterfly.blogspot.com/">graceful-butterfly.blogspot.com</a></p>
<p>Since this article was written, Missy has started a project in honor of Grace, called &#8220;Everlasting Grace.&#8221;  Handmade blankets, hats, and booties will be donated to the St. Alexius NICU, where Gracie was well cared for during her 15 hours of life.  Each blanket will have a copy of Grace&#8217;s story attached to it.  &#8220;Everlasting Grace&#8221; is a way to help support families that are often times dealing with unexpected circumstances; every newborn baby will have a &#8220;blankie&#8221; to snuggle with and hat to keep them warm while in the NICU.  This will be an on-going project, as Missy plans on replenishing St. Alexius&#8217; stock every so many months.   Anyone interested in contributing to this project through their skills or monetary donations may contact Missy via email at <a href="hilzende@hotmail.com">hilzende@hotmail.com</a> or by phone at 701-363-2451.  </p>
<p>Cheryl McCormack is a CNA at Missouri Slope Lutheran Care Center.  Creative writing has always been one of her favorite pastimes.  </em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Tina Ding Helping others become well on a physical, emotional and spiritual level through annual exams, family medical practice and comprehensive programming describes a day’s work for Rhonda Jolliffe at Lifeways Clinic. As a holistic nurse practitioner, Jolliffe practices Holistic and functional medicine and is certified as a nutritionist and acupuncturist. Her clinic combines [...]]]></description>
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<p>Helping others become well on a physical, emotional and spiritual level through annual exams, family medical practice and comprehensive programming describes a day’s work for Rhonda Jolliffe at Lifeways Clinic. As a holistic nurse practitioner, Jolliffe practices <strong>Holistic and functional medicine</strong> and is certified as a nutritionist and acupuncturist. Her clinic combines traditional and integrated medicine so clients are self-empowered to become well.<span id="more-1429"></span></p>
<p>“We help patients become well in mind, body and spirit by promoting lifestyle changes while using a blend of traditional and holistic medicine,”Jolliffe said. “Each patient is unique and we like to offer ways to not only assess their situation, but prevent and help to make key changes that otherwise influence their health. And if needed, their diagnosis and subsequent treatment will be developed to support their optimal health.”</p>
<p>In their new location at 1001 Gateway Avenue at Bismarck, Lifeways Clinic offers annual exams, focused preventative care exams and medical lifestyle/weight management in a soft, serene spa-like setting. Warm neutral-toned wall colorings with inviting examination rooms help patients feel welcome and special. Jolliffe works closely with her RN, CNA, receptionist and adjunct health care practitioners in the clinic, offering a full gamut of services.</p>
<p>Diana Herner, LPCC, (“Choices Counseling &#038; Educational Center”) provides <strong>mental health counseling</strong> services from a Christian perspective. Diana is located on the main level in Lifeways. Diana counsels individuals, marriage and families in transition. She is a BC/BS provider and accepts new clients upon referral.</p>
<p>Lifeways also offers a therapeutic lifestyle program, which promotes first-line treatments for chronic diseases such as high blood pressure and high cholesterol as well as conditions such as menopause, fatigue disorders and those related to obesity. Through lifestyle coaching, consultations and testing, <strong>First Line Therapy</strong> helps patients establish realistic goals, monitor progress and learn how to choose healthy, nutritious foods. Additionally, stress management and healthful, safe exercise are addressed for weight management.  Rhonda is also excited to add a new program this year: “Healthy Living with Beyond Organic”, a 12 week educational series that provides education on topics of healthy nutrition, exercise, mind-body-spirit, raising healthy children and organic cooking.</p>
<p>The lower level holds a <strong>Stott Pilates</strong> studio where two certified instructors instruct clients either privately or in small groups. Stott Pilates exercises are performed on a reformer (equipment) encouraging and benefitting one’s balance and flexibility, coordination and circulation as well as improvement of posture. Through basic core conditioning, the body functions and feels better with the use of the five basic principles: breathing, pelvic placement, rib cage placement, scapular movement and head/cervical spine placement. Certified instructors Susan Suchy, RN and Denise Enebo, PT student, work with clients of all ages, all abilities and help their client’s develop a fitness regime for a lifetime. The perfect complement to life, pilates will leave you looking toned, feeling revitalized, and moving with ease. </p>
<p>Also utilizing the studio is Pam Redline, <strong>personal trainer</strong> – who fills the need for individual training as well as post-injury and post-rehabilitation in the Bismarck-Mandan surrounding area. </p>
<p><strong>Massage therapist</strong> Amy Leitner, specializes in therapeutic / clinical deep tissue massage for acute and chronic pain. </p>
<p>Tone-Lise Stenslie and Bel Neibel offer <strong>BodyTalk</strong>.  A certified practitioner of Body Talk will help clients restore vital communication between various parts of their body and mind via muscle-testing and facilitate the body’s ability to heal itself. They encourage patients to learn how to help heal the body, however will not substitute for medical treatment or diagnosing illness.</p>
<p>Having an appreciation for the restorative properties of being outdoors and enjoying sunshine, Jolliffe also recognizes the dangers of prolonged sun exposure. Since many enjoy tanning throughout summer months, yet hope to do so safely, she sought a healthful way to tan. She recently welcomed aboard Megan Frohlich’s Smile of the Sun <strong>mobile spray tanning.</strong></p>
<p>Jolliffe encourages her patients to utilize <strong>breast thermography</strong> as a tool for both early detection and prevention of cancer cells at an early stage. This diagnostic tool takes infrared images (digital photography and computer programming) that detect heat to measure the physiological activity in a breast.  Thermography does not replace a mammogram, however serves as an additional screening tool for breast tissue.</p>
<p>Jolliffe has been recently trained in <strong>Medical Acupuncture </strong>and is now providing this as an additional therapy for many conditions, including acute pain from injury, chronic pain, smoking cessation, appetite control, anxiety, depression, insomnia, and hormonal imbalances.  There are five mechanisms for understanding medical acupuncture:  1. Produce effects by stimulating nerve fibers in skin and muscles, thus promoting local healing; 2. Reduces pain in a segment of the body where the needles are placed; 3. Reduces pain throughout the whole body; 4. Provides a calming effect and improves wellbeing; 5. Inactivates myofascial trigger points.  Jolliffes future plans are to add an additional service of “facial enhancement” or “facial rejuvenation” as an alternative to more invasive procedures of providing a more youthful appearance.</p>
<p>Jolliffe and the staff at Lifeways partner with patients to help them learn more about becoming healthy through individual lifestyle and habits. Each staff member works to help support an end result of optimal health by offering a holistic and functional medicine approach to: healthy weight management, nutrition, exercise, sports injuries and physicals, thermography, stress management, aromatherapy, allergy testing, hormone balancing, metabolic repair, autoimmune disorders, osteoporosis, depression and anxiety, post traumatic stress disorder, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, inflammatory bowel disorders, insulin resistance, high blood pressure and high cholesterol.</p>
<p>“At Lifeways, we’re about providing ongoing support while our patients ‘become well’,” Jolliffe said. “We strive to empower our patients to come to know their own highest level of wellness on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.”</p>
<p>Rhonda is married to Nick and has two sons, Nicklaus and Ben. Watching her boys in athletic events is what she loves most in life. Additionally, she enjoys golf, outdoor activities, reading and other social events with family and friends.</p>
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		<title>Women&#8217;s Heart Health: A proactive approach saves lives</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Kylie Blanchard Mary K. Vetter knew something wasn’t right when she began noticing pain starting in the palms of her hands and radiating up her arms along with shortness of breath. At the time she was 49-years-old and after visiting her doctor, she was referred to a lung specialist. “I was given inhalers with [...]]]></description>
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By Kylie Blanchard</p>
<p>Mary K. Vetter knew something wasn’t right when she began noticing pain starting in the palms of her hands and radiating up her arms along with shortness of breath. At the time she was 49-years-old and after visiting her doctor, she was referred to a lung specialist.<br />
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“I was given inhalers with steroids which just enhanced my symptoms,” she says, adding this was in an attempt to treat her for what was thought to be allergies. “I went back to the lung specialist because after a few months I couldn’t even walk from a handicapped parking spot into a building.”  </p>
<p>Vetter says one of the best decisions she made was to insist on additional tests to determine the cause of her symptoms. While taking a pulmonary stress test to examine her lung function, it was revealed something was very wrong with her heart. </p>
<p>After being introduced to Dr. Eshoo at St. Alexius’s Heart &#038; Lung Clinic, a cardiac stress test was performed. Blockage was found in the arteries around her heart and, two weeks later, an angiogram test exposed a congenital heart defect that contributed to the blockage. “They told me it couldn’t be fixed with just a stint and I had a double bypass the next morning.”  </p>
<p>Now fully recovered from her open-heart surgery, Vetter says she has enjoyed having more energy. “If you don’t have blood flow, you just don’t feel well,” she says. “I feel so good now. I am more active and I can go for walks without pain.”</p>
<p>Vetter learned a valuable lesson from her experience that she feels is important to share with other women. “Anytime you feel the slightest ‘twinge’ or something doesn’t feel right, don’t just pass it off. Don’t be afraid to talk to your doctor,” she says. “You have to be your own best advocate because you know your body.”  </p>
<p><strong>Education is Key </strong><br />
February is American Heart Month and marks the American Heart Association’s push to grab the attention of all Americans regarding their heart health. During this time, the organization also targets women through its Go Red™ for Women campaign. </p>
<p>“It is so important for women to know the signs of a heart attack and get immediate medical treatment, but also work to prevent heart disease through a healthy lifestyle,” says Joan Enderle, Communications and Go Red™ Director at the American Heart Association, North Dakota. “We want them to be an advocate for their own health.”  </p>
<p>Enderle offers some startling statistics when it comes to the heart health of women in the state and across the nation. “Heart disease is the number one killer of women in North Dakota and many women are unaware they are at risk,” she says. “More women die of cardiovascular diseases, including stroke, than all forms of cancer combined.”  </p>
<p>In 2009, 32.4 percent of the deaths in North Dakota were caused by cardiovascular diseases, including heart disease, heart attack and stroke, as compared to 21.4 percent of deaths caused by all forms of cancer combined.  </p>
<p>The American Heart Association’s Go Red™ for Women movement works to educate women on the risk factors for heart disease and to promote lifestyle changes that can benefit heart health. The American Heart Association has determined the following risk factors as controllable or treatable with the help of a healthcare professional or changes in lifestyle factors:<br />
• Blood Cholesterol<br />
• Blood Pressure<br />
• Smoking<br />
• Physical Activity<br />
• Diet<br />
• Obesity<br />
• Blood Sugar  </p>
<p>“Ninety-percent of women have one or more risk factors for heart disease and 80-percent of cardiovascular disease is preventable with lifestyle changes,” says Enderle, adding it is important women take these risk factors and lifestyle changes seriously. “Women are more likely to die of their first heart attack and nationwide 26-percent of women die within a year of having a heart attack, compared to 19-percent of men.” </p>
<p><strong>Making Lifestyle Changes</strong><br />
“Heart disease used to be seen as more of a ‘man’s disease,’ but we women caught up with them and, unfortunately, galloped passed them,” says Melanie Carvell, director of the Medcenter One Women’s Health Center, a women-focused fitness facility. </p>
<p>“It’s often such a silent killer and we just can’t see what is going on,” she notes. “Sometimes the first symptom women have of heart disease is sudden death.” </p>
<p>In addition to regular check-ups with a physician, Carvell says physical activity is a strong factor in preventing heart disease. “If you are going to pick one thing that will help all the risk factors, it would be getting regular exercise.”  </p>
<p>And she notes an important component of sticking with an exercise routine and lifestyle changes is developing a support system. “Join a group, join a club, or join league,” says Carvell. “If we enjoy it, we are just going to be more likely to stick with it.”  </p>
<p>The American Heart Association in North Dakota is involved in all aspects of saving lives, says Enderle. “This includes funding two research projects at North Dakota State University, working with hospitals and healthcare providers across the state on stroke and heart systems of care, working with schools and worksites on promoting healthy eating and physical activity, advocating for policies and funding, and collaborating with the North Dakota Department of Health Heart Disease and Stroke Program on promoting the Million Hearts Campaign.” </p>
<p>“Ultimately, we just want people to say ‘Yes!’ to healthy behaviors as a way to prevent heart disease,” says Enderle.     </p>
<p>For additional information on women’s heart health and healthy heart living, contact the American Heart Association of North Dakota website at <a href="http://www.heart.org/northdakota">heart.org/northdakota</a> or visit <a href="http://www.goredforwomen.org">goredforwomen.org.<br />
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Signs of a Heart Attack in Women:</strong><br />
• Uncomfortable pressure, squeezing, fullness or pain in the center of the chest. It may lasts more than a few minutes or go away and come back. </p>
<p>• Pain or discomfort in one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw or stomach. </p>
<p>• Shortness of breath with or without chest discomfort. </p>
<p>• Other signs including breaking out in a cold sweat, nausea or lightheadedness. </p>
<p>• As with men, women’s most common heart attack symptom is chest pain or discomfort. But women are more likely than men to experience some of the other common symptoms including shortness of breath, nausea/vomiting and back or jaw pain. </p>
<p>If you have any of these signs, don’t wait more than five minutes before calling for help. Call 911 and get to a hospital right away.</p>
<p>Source: American Heart Association/Go Red™ for Women</p>
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